{"id":1,"date":"2020-12-23T12:11:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-23T09:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/?p=1"},"modified":"2020-12-23T17:49:27","modified_gmt":"2020-12-23T14:49:27","slug":"kreste-ilk-gunum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/2020\/12\/23\/kreste-ilk-gunum\/","title":{"rendered":"Kre\u015fte \u0130lk G\u00fcn\u00fcm!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Okula ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fun sosyal hayata ge\u00e7i\u015f s\u00fcrecinde \u00f6nemli bir basamakt\u0131r. Birincil bak\u0131m veren ki\u015filerden ayr\u0131l\u0131p, yeni yeti\u015fkinlerle ve ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131yla ili\u015fki kurmas\u0131n\u0131 gerektiren bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, sadece kre\u015fe ba\u015flayan \u00e7ocu\u011fu de\u011fil t\u00fcm aileyi etkiler ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu oldu\u011fu kadar yeti\u015fkinleri de kayg\u0131land\u0131rabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ebeveynlere de fazlaca g\u00f6rev d\u00fc\u015fmektedir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk, ailesinin kendisini b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yere g\u00fcven duydu\u011funu hissetti\u011finde kendini daha rahat hissedecek ve ayr\u0131lmak daha kolay olacakt\u0131r. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ailenin kuruma olan g\u00fcveni \u00e7ocu\u011fun da g\u00fcven duygusunu artt\u0131racakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fa, kre\u015fe ba\u015flamadan \u00f6nce kre\u015fin ve \u00f6\u011fretmeninin tan\u0131t\u0131lmas\u0131, orda neler yapabilece\u011finin konu\u015fulmas\u0131, merak etti\u011fi \u015feylerin cevapland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131, ancak t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 yaparken ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bir yakla\u015f\u0131m olu\u015fturulmas\u0131 gereklidir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar bu ya\u015flarda hala d\u00fcnyay\u0131 anne babalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnden g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri i\u00e7in,\u00a0kre\u015fle ilgili sizin s\u00f6yleyece\u011finiz olumlu ifadeler\u00a0onun i\u00e7in \u00e7ok anlaml\u0131 olacakt\u0131r. \u201c<\/span><\/span>Kre\u015fin \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir yer, orada \u00e7ok g\u00fczel oyuncaklar var, arkada\u015flar\u0131n olacak, de\u011fi\u015fik oyunlar oynayacaks\u0131n\u0131z, ben oray\u0131 \u00e7ok sevdim<\/i><\/span><\/span>\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler ile \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun zihninde olumlu okul alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturabilir okula kar\u015f\u0131 sempatiyi artt\u0131rabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Okula ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131n ayn\u0131 zamanda bir ayr\u0131lma s\u00fcreci oldu\u011fu ak\u0131lda tutulmal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ayr\u0131lma S\u00fcrecini K\u0131sa Tutun \u2018\u2019Ho\u015f\u00e7a Kal, G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcz\u2019\u2019 Diyerek Geri Gelece\u011finizi Ona Hissettirin!<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h6>\n

Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocu\u011fun yeni tan\u0131maya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ortamda kendini g\u00fcvensiz hissetmemesi i\u00e7in ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n kademeli olmas\u0131 gereklidir. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130lk g\u00fcnlerde ayr\u0131l\u0131k vakti geldi\u011finde \u00e7ocu\u011funuz \u00e7ok fazla tepki g\u00f6sterip a\u011flamaya ba\u015flayabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu durumda \u00f6ncelikle bu tepkinin ger\u00e7ekten a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kayg\u0131dan kaynaklanan bir tepki mi, yoksa s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n denendi\u011fi ge\u00e7ici bir tepki mi oldu\u011fu de\u011ferlendirilmelidir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bu durumda ailenin ve kurumun kararl\u0131 ve tutarl\u0131 tutumu bu tepkinin zamanla azal\u0131p yok olmas\u0131na olanak sa\u011flar. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocukla ayr\u0131l\u0131k vakti geldi\u011finde, gitmeniz gerekti\u011fini ama mutlaka geri gelip onu alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kararl\u0131 bir dille anlatmak gereklidir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nas\u0131l ki anne ve babalar her g\u00fcn i\u015fe gitmek durumundaysa, \u00e7ocuklar da okula gitmelidir \u015feklinde bir a\u00e7\u0131klama yap\u0131lmal\u0131 ve \u015fimdi gidece\u011finizi ama zaman\u0131 geldi\u011finde (anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir zaman kavram\u0131yla, \u00f6rne\u011fin; hava karar\u0131nca vb. gibi a\u00e7\u0131klanabilir) gelip onu geri alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131 ve gizli olmayacak \u015fekilde kurumdan ayr\u0131lmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ancak zaman zaman geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015flerin olabilece\u011fi ve al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun bile tepki g\u00f6sterebilece\u011fi unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00f6yle bir durumda endi\u015feye kap\u0131lmadan kararl\u0131 bir tutum almakta ve bu geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn sebeplerini ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakta fayda vard\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130lk G\u00fcnleri K\u0131sa Tutun!<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span> <\/u><\/span><\/span><\/h6>\n

\u0130lk\u00a02, 3 g\u00fcn\u00a0\u00e7ocu\u011fun kre\u015fte\u00a01-2 saat kalmas\u0131\u00a0yeterlidir. \u0130lk g\u00fcnlerden tam g\u00fcn kalmas\u0131 hatta orada uyumas\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcveninin sarsar. \u00c7ocuk g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde b\u00fct\u00fcn ke\u015ffini bitirir ve ertesi g\u00fcn yine uzun kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in gelmek istemez.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

2, 3 g\u00fcnden sonra \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun genel <\/span><\/span>durumuna ve tepkilerine ba\u011fl\u0131<\/b><\/span><\/span> olarak <\/span><\/span>yar\u0131m g\u00fcn<\/b><\/span><\/span> ya <\/span><\/span>da tam g\u00fcn<\/b><\/span><\/span> kalmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilirsiniz. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kre\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk g\u00fcn \u00e7ocu\u011fun\u00a0yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131, yorgan\u0131n\u0131, yast\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da al\u0131p gitmeyin. Bu durum, \u00e7ocukta evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yorum hissi uyand\u0131rabilece\u011fi i\u00e7in, kayg\u0131lanmas\u0131na neden olabilir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Se\u00e7imleri Kendisine B\u0131rak\u0131n <\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span>?<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h6>\n

\u00c7ocuklara hayatta kendileri ile ilgili durumlarda\u00a0tercih hakk\u0131 sunmak\u00a0onlar\u0131n geli\u015fimleri i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bir \u00e7ocuk hangi ti\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fc giyebilece\u011fine, ne renk \u00e7orap alaca\u011f\u0131na karar verebilir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Evden \u00e7\u0131karken \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun yan\u0131na\u00a0sevdi\u011fi bir oyunca\u011f\u0131 almas\u0131na izin verin. O g\u00fcn, kre\u015fte oyuncak g\u00fcn\u00fc olmasa bile b\u0131rak\u0131n evden bir e\u015fyas\u0131n\u0131 yan\u0131nda g\u00f6t\u00fcrs\u00fcn. B\u00f6ylece kendini daha g\u00fcvende hissedecektir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocu\u011fu rahatlatacak ve sizi hat\u0131rlatacak bir oyuncak, foto\u011fraf gibi bir nesnenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun yan\u0131na verilmesinin faydas\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00fcn Sonunda Ona Sevildi\u011fini, Yaln\u0131z Olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, <\/b><\/span><\/span>\u00d6nemsedi\u011fini Hissettirin! <\/b><\/span><\/span>?<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span> <\/b><\/u><\/h6>\n

Son olarak unutulmamas\u0131 gerekir ki, her \u00e7ocuk tektir ve benzersizdir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar \u00e7ok kolay bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 ve ayr\u0131lma s\u00fcreci ya\u015farken, baz\u0131lar\u0131nda bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 olduk\u00e7a zor ge\u00e7ebilir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Her \u00e7ocu\u011fun verece\u011fi tepki farkl\u0131 olabilece\u011fi i\u00e7in, bu d\u00f6nemde onu di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklarla k\u0131yaslamak, sizi kayg\u0131land\u0131rmaktan, onu da \u00f6fkelendirmekten ve yetersiz hissetmesine sebep olmaktan \u00f6te pek bir i\u015fe yaramaz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBu okulu sevdin mi, yar\u0131n da buraya gelelim mi<\/i><\/span><\/span>\u201d gibi sorular sorman\u0131z\u00a0do\u011fru olmayacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Bunun yerine yeni ba\u015flayan bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocu\u011fa yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, sevildi\u011fini, \u00f6nemsendi\u011fini, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kayg\u0131lar\u0131n anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131n her ko\u015fulda yan\u0131nda ve destek oldu\u011funu hissettirmek yararl\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Anka Motessori \u00d6zg\u00fcn Geli\u015fim G\u00fcnd\u00fcz Bak\u0131mevi Ailesi olarak birbirinden k\u0131ymetli yavrular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fcven ve sevgi \u00e7er\u00e7evesi i\u00e7inde kar\u015f\u0131layacak, aile s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biricik yavrular\u0131m\u0131za kurumumuzda da hissettirerek ve onlar\u0131 u\u011furlayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcpheniz olmas\u0131n <\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span>?<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Sayg\u0131, sevgi ve esenlikle kalman\u0131z dile\u011fiyle.<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

OKUL Y\u00d6NET\u0130M\u0130<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Okula ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fun sosyal hayata ge\u00e7i\u015f s\u00fcrecinde \u00f6nemli bir basamakt\u0131r. Birincil bak\u0131m veren ki\u015filerden ayr\u0131l\u0131p, yeni yeti\u015fkinlerle ve ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131yla ili\u015fki kurmas\u0131n\u0131 gerektiren bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, sadece kre\u015fe ba\u015flayan \u00e7ocu\u011fu de\u011fil t\u00fcm aileyi etkiler ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu oldu\u011fu kadar yeti\u015fkinleri de kayg\u0131land\u0131rabilir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ebeveynlere de fazlaca g\u00f6rev d\u00fc\u015fmektedir. \u00c7ocuk, ailesinin kendisini b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yere g\u00fcven duydu\u011funu hissetti\u011finde kendini […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[31],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3364,"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1\/revisions\/3364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ankamontessori.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}